How to confirm, whether you have fallen in love?
It doesn’t matter what your gender is, but basically this is a question both girls and boys come up with.
When do you fall in love?
This can be at any age, whether your 9 years old, 16 years old or 30 years it doesn’t matter. Well at a younger age, people do say its an attraction or more know as a “CRUSH“, but how to know whether my/ your love is a crush or true love?
Mostly there are different categories on how people fall in love, below are some of them
- by a crush
- by their qualities and attitudes
- wealthy life
- by hating each other or fighting
- by liking each other from heart to heart
- one side love
from the above categories, the 3 most important categories are:
- Liking each other from heart to heart
- One side Love
Its human nature where some fall in love for a person’s appearance, how he or she looks good. That’s never a crime, people do intend to say
Looks don’t matter, when 2 hearts are connect to each other
Well the deep side of this statement is 82% correct, but yet as long as the human nature, we love a person by their looks too. We can not change that truth, but there is a chance where people consider a person’s look over 2 factors;
2 girls, both are looking attractive, but when summarizing facts, some would choose a figure of a person and some about how mesmerizing he or she is.
In a fact the girl on the left, her eyes, her charm look, her loose black hair, her small lips, her wide eyebrows might be so attractive for a guy to fall in love.
But at the same time its the girl on the right, be much voted to be fallen in love as she is pretty hot, sexy, blond and just makes a guy want her.
But this doesn’t create a space that guys are perverts, while its okay for girls to be liking and falling in love with these 6 to 8 packs muscles toned guys, or some girls falling in love for the guys, who might be innocent, nerdy, cute or lovable. As mentioned before its all human nature. No one is wrong on that personal interest for each other.
Coming back to the point, you can fall in love with “appearance“. If you have fallen in love by someone’s looks, at a glance do not attempt to propose him or her. Give sometime to both of you, to associate, and to know the likes and dislikes of each other. That will create a better bond and a better chance to fall in love, if your hearts are seeking for each other.
Liking each other from heart to heart
Your pretty lucky, if the person you love and you too, are loving each other, having common thoughts on decision your’ll make, similar interests and love talking endlessly. Rarely 2 people fall in love, by disliking each other or having quarrels for each and everything to piss each other. But the fun fact is, there are many couples who once were enemies but now they are the most lovable couple.
No one would have ever thought, the person you use to never share your feelings, would be the very same person you will be sharing your life with. Still, some couples are very surprised, on how these kind of relationships, ends up as a happily married life.
Every action has an opposite reaction
Kind of a fishy, when you read that right?
Well its true, you might be the worst enemies, but you both might be the most caring couple for each other. Well this not human nature, this is the surprise of humans. This is the power of love, which no scientist can ever explain. Love is infinity when the correct pair sums up at the end. Remember we cannot change our life destiny, but still we can re-write some pages, so if your planning to re-write those pages, make sure to choose the correct person as your life partner.
One Side LOVE
The greatest as well as the most fearful part of your life. Been a one side lover is happy as well as, ending up with great pain. It is a handful of people who had survived that pain or was lucky to win his or her love with the person they always wanted.
One side lovers are the category of people who would go up to any extent to prove their love. Its kind of a creepy, on how high they would go, to take risks in proving their love. Some label these lovers as lunatics. But its not, they are the only one’s who knows to give their love/ feelings and remain silent.
The people who remains silent would either be alone or would have left the world without any notice.
Well these so called one side lovers are much annoying at times, they will come behind asking just one chance to feel their love. But due to several reasons, you will not take a notice with that. Time passes by, they too loose hopes, interest about you or probably would moved away. But to be honest, that one chance which they requested would have been a great relief for them, but yet its just not about a bias decision but a wise decision of what to do next, as some people who could not accept their request might be in a stage of loving another, having a crush on another or facing more with a serious responsibility than thinking of his or her happiness at that moment in their life.
So if you have a one side love, though your serious about the love you show, don’t get too emotional, that would hurt you massively. As well as if your a person who has to accept or reject a one side lover’s request, do not tell “let’s be good friends”, as they are not in any intension to be friends, as they only want to be a good life partner. Take some time and talk to them and explain your situation for not allowing him or her, to be a part in your life.
You might ask Uncle Drac “Why do I have to even explain him or her about my life, its my wish, to whom I should have in my life”
Fair enough with your answer, but its about his or her life too. You will regret forever of hurting feelings of a person like that, who’s only intension was to love you and make you his or her life partner and keep you happy, forever.
So clearing out doubts and your personal will, with each other in a situation like that will help both of you to sort out things, without hurting each other in their journey, even though your’ll won’t be together.
We are coming back to the answer, which you have been waiting for all this time.
How to confirm, whether you have fallen in love?
Here’s the answer in point form:
- If its hard to forget a person’s face, even if you don’t meet them often
- If your feeling strange, unsorted about thinking over and over about him or her day and night
- Avoid talking with anyone else, except the person you like
- If you keep fighting with that person, even though you want to talk and spend time with them
- Feeling nervous or shy
- If you keep waiting eagerly to see that person at least once per day
- Always feeling to talk with that person
- You only want to hear his or her voice
- Much interested to know her personal details, or likes and dislikes
- Would prefer to take a photo with him/ her
- Keep his or her photo as your wallpaper on your mobile or desktop
- Keep something related or belonging of that person, near you safely
- Prefer not to share anything which was gifted by that person, with anyone else
- Would prefer yourself to be noticed by him/her, when ever he/she is present around
- Would only prefer to ask anything only from that person
- Stalking around them
- Shy to make direct eye contacts
- You get pissed when someone is annoying him/ her or threating them
- Most fast in caring, when its something happened, towards the person you love
- Bear any pain done, when the person you love hurts you or makes you sad, so you fake smile as if nothing happened
Finally your madly and deeply in love with him or her. You, are no more normal and uncle Drac is no more possible to even control you.
So its high time you choose what to do. Talk with them and express your love. But never be silent and kill your love story as a one side lover. You never know, how your luck could work too.
Then adios my friends, wish you best of luck in your love story. Please share your stories with us, would love to hear it. For any doubts, you could always ask uncle drac for guidance.
Remember though your love was not accepted, your feeling for love never lost. You WON ! Keep sharing your love, to everyone around you.