Children Vs Parents

Parenting done correctly

The first objective in been parents, is to understand who your child is and the very state of it commences from by not to compare your child to another.

Every kid is unique and different from their minds, so by comparing them to each other will not improve the ability, of getting your deal as a parent to motivate your child. It will only make your child DE-motivated and take away their confidence.

Your child is not Super Mario, where you handle, how he will be playing his or her life. Your child is a human being, just like parents who have feelings and their personal desires to fulfill. There are parents who understand their children very well and building up strong bonds, with their children, and in return their children are very much attached to their parents.

Minds of children are very open, they always observe things which comes first. So its very important that good detail, good qualities and good concepts are shown to them. If the evil energy is roaming around, it’s much of a hard time to fix your child’s mind. But still as parents your’ll are the ones who can help them to be better, respectable citizens.

Well the most important milestone of any parent is to provide your child with good education, but where they screw up is, when they expect a lot from their children. This is where the entire war starts of making a mazer runner to win the battle of high rank marks, thinking that your child is a machine.

Some parents say, “We are dreaming of our child to reach the highest rank, as we were never eligible of it”

Well this statement has 2 sides of expression

#1 – Thats due to less wealth or facilities of parents, that they didn’t have the opportunity to get their necessary education, they are looking forward to provide good education to their children to let them be successful.

As a child on this stage, Yes, you are in debt to do it correctly. Study well and make your parents happy and proud, as they know what they missed in their life, where they never wanted it to be repeated in your life too. So they sacrifice their time and happiness in making your win.

But parents remember, when your working hard and sacrificing most of your time towards your child’s success, never forget to be close to them too. Sometimes with the wide gap between children and parents, that would make them finally end up as strangers. There are examples in every corner on this planet.

So children, though parents weren’t able to be with you at every moment, remember they were absent, as they were making more time to build up your future. So always be humble to show your respect for their commitment.

#2 – There are the parents, who provides everything towards their child, to make him win against the enemies and competitors in making their child the best. THE WAR OF COMPARING THE BEST

The word “BEST” is the worst nightmare of a child. It could be an endless pain for a child of not been understood by their parents, on the dreams of your child.

Every kid, did never want to be an engineer, doctor or an employee. They would have other dreams of been a photographer, musician, artists, dancer, fitness coach, teacher, motor mechanic, a DJ, videographer, journalist, actor, editor and so many more. But what did, stop them of been the next Micheal Jackson or the next Will Smith or was he to be the next Steve McCurry.

Stop putting your child on a race, they are not horses to be betting on who would be coming number one. Let them be free on their heads. Do not consider decisions based on what “THE SOCIETY THINKS” OR “WHAT THE SOCIETY WANTS” society is not the owners of your children, YOU ARE. Understand your child, take decisions based under the skills of your children. On what they could achieve. On what they are experienced in. Best of all, on what they are more passionate of.

The most successful all time legends in other fields were, always the people who once were children, who followed their passion and achieve to their targets, without condemning about their choice they had to make in choosing their hobby as their work or job.

They were let free as birds and they flew high towards their success.

But as parents, you keep cutting their wings and then expecting them to fly to their success, what is the whole point of your commitment that you show, as parents.

As children its your duty to make your parents happy, proud and take good care of them. So you should study well and reach to the top.

As parents you should understand what your children prefers to be in their life and listen on their passion too. Children aren’t robots, provide them good study, good qualities and good guidance. They will surely make you proud.

Most importantly believe in them. No matter what, their true strength and power of confidence, begins and develop from the trust and the motivation given by parents.

Article by Azzurro

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